Marriage plays dynamic role in the man’s life. A man lives more life part with his wife then with his parents. It is the responsibility of the man to see the welfare of the female partner as the man to look after her when a female prepares to stay with him through our life time. A skill of understanding a spouse is very much needed otherwise it is a bit difficult for him to adjust with the female partner. Most of the marriages are failing due to lack of understanding over the spouses. For marriage survival they need a good understanding between the spouses. But how to get understand your spouse? As a first step estimate your spouse’s background, then know about her hobbies, interests, dresses she like, things she like, her education and ambitions etc. there are different backgrounds, the economic standards, educational standards, degrees, skills of home science and other such aspects.
Healing a marriage means teaching a lesson to your spouse without doing much loss. But these we can understand but the motives of a spouse are very much necessary to understand. Is she interested in the marriage? Is she ready to get children now, afterwards, or never? Can she understand you? Try to understand your spouse better than imposing your interests over your spouse. And give her your support at full length, whether her answers to your questions positive or negative. It is easy to argue but difficult to understand the other for any one. There comes some understanding over your spouse, if you have some patience. As a first step try to give all most all whatever your spouse ask.
When your spouse is angry with you and away from your desires and ambitions and all your hopes turn against your will. Okay though you are supporting your spouse, she is opposing you and always trying to discourage at every step of your progress? Naturally you are prepared to quarrel with your or calmly planned to avoid the marriage. Okay don’t be hasty but wait as you have already waited with patience. Healing a marriage means influencing your spouse with your goodness.
You are unable to adjust with your spouse and her comments, though you are encouraging her, she is discouraging by all means. So don’t apply directly for divorce or don’t talk about a divorce also, keep all you dislikes in your mind and goes some other city or a place somewhat distant saying that you have special duty for a month or two. She will find the difficulties of life without your help; probably she cries almost all days that you are away from her. She will call you a hundred times on phone, but don’t melt immediately wait for more days after the calls. Finally go and see her, without your help.
Healing a marriage means teaching a lesson to your spouse without doing much loss. But these we can understand but the motives of a spouse are very much necessary to understand. Is she interested in the marriage? Is she ready to get children now, afterwards, or never? Can she understand you? Try to understand your spouse better than imposing your interests over your spouse. And give her your support at full length, whether her answers to your questions positive or negative. It is easy to argue but difficult to understand the other for any one. There comes some understanding over your spouse, if you have some patience. As a first step try to give all most all whatever your spouse ask.
When your spouse is angry with you and away from your desires and ambitions and all your hopes turn against your will. Okay though you are supporting your spouse, she is opposing you and always trying to discourage at every step of your progress? Naturally you are prepared to quarrel with your or calmly planned to avoid the marriage. Okay don’t be hasty but wait as you have already waited with patience. Healing a marriage means influencing your spouse with your goodness.
You are unable to adjust with your spouse and her comments, though you are encouraging her, she is discouraging by all means. So don’t apply directly for divorce or don’t talk about a divorce also, keep all you dislikes in your mind and goes some other city or a place somewhat distant saying that you have special duty for a month or two. She will find the difficulties of life without your help; probably she cries almost all days that you are away from her. She will call you a hundred times on phone, but don’t melt immediately wait for more days after the calls. Finally go and see her, without your help.
